Unmasking this (and that) blog

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I just want to make things clear. There are indeed two blogs. The first one is on Tumblr: thesugarjane.tumblr.com and the second is right here at thesugarjane.wordpress.com.

Both are mine, but after some time blogging I now understand how to distinguish between the two. The Tumblr is mostly things I see on Tumblr. There is a great company there too. The WordPress, however, is a lot more personal and intimate. I only do write my own posts there and this is what I really am and what I live for.

The cross-posting is set up from WordPress to Tumblr (but not the other way round) so all you see on WP will sooner or later appear at Tumblr tagged ‘personal’. Check this tag if you are up to a more serious content.

I do love Tumblr for the pace and visual part, but I also value WordPress for the easiness of commenting, which is free and open to anyone regardless of any registration. I do read all messages, comments and questions everywhere and do my best to respond. Feel free to get in touch.

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Well yes, I am totally useless in all this. Sometimes I see those fantasies about girls being lost because of a flat tire and I seriously get worried because it is about me… I only know very generally that it needs to be pumped…

Probably need to ask for a driver…

Dare you

Now seriously… The dress is exciting, but it takes hell of courage to go out… Don’t you think?


Guys, is it really as attractive as Daddy claims it to be? He asks me for a high platform and I have never really thought it is that attractive. I mean fine, there are certain professions that go on along such footwear (more of a transparent ones though, but nevertheless). And now Daddy asks if I could wear those for him. In public.

I certainly took time to think it over, but although I am used to heels, platforms are a bit tricky. Are they still worth a try?

Waist band

Just tell me what do you think? I personally love the straps and totally knocked off by the waist part. It is indeed a garter belt, but what a look!

Prince charming without a stallion

Image from mpora.com

Just like I said I only have to worry about a bike now. And however simple it is in fact, but even so there is a guy who helps me to keep it in order.

The bike behaves between being cared for and I never had any trouble with it before. But I did yesterday. I was riding and nothing felt wrong, but the chain suddenly went off. I know it sounds simple and I look stupid, but it got stuck behind the metal bit that changes gears and I could not get it out.

It took me good ten minutes and hell of anger before I realized I just have to walk back. But then my prince charming passed by and it only took him less than a minute to release the chain and put it in place. You can not imagine how ashamed I was that I could not do it myself.

The guy turned to be pretty talkative and easy going. So I finally agreed to take a ride with him some day. Pure exercise, pumpkins!

My weakness

Image from gearsandgirls.net

Well, I have to admit I am pretty bad at this kind of stuff. I can fix a few things and can probably deal with the screwdriver, but when it comes to something more complex I am always like ‘I did not do anything, it broke itself’ or ‘I did not even know that cracking sound is bad’… So if a man ever tries to impress me with something it should be his ability to cope with such complex things.

All the rest is taken care of. I either take a taxi or get a car ordered for me. The only trouble is to get to where the car is waiting for me, but again this is solved by a taxi. I once had an issue with the car, but I was fortunate enough to have my max with me so it all was nothing to worry about.

The worst was during my first relationship ages ago, when the guy had a car which was cool on the outside, but in fact it was ready to break every second. Another thing to only show off, like me and many other things in his life. I felt like a cheap toy sometimes.

Fortunately, I do not have to worry about such things any more. A push bike is almost as far as I need to go.In fact I wanted to tell you a funny story about me being rescued today, but I have already slipped to something else so let it be the next story.

Hiding behind the lingerie

Image from babereal.com

Maybe I have already complained about that, but after the last date I probably need to say it again.

There is a lot more attraction in barely covered body than in the one totally exposed. Only an unimaginative mind needs everything to be shown and refuses to add his dreams to a picture he sees.

In fact in my experience, girls take it a lot easier about their partner not being naked. Quite a lot of dates have left me in some garments left. Guys are a lot more reluctant to having something on. Yep, this is another reason for girls. 🙂

It is not always the same. Some people make me wish to totally expose myself for them. Others make me feel more restricted and closed. And it also changes with time, moon weather and everything you can think of.

But I honestly need to thank Daddy for feeling this. He made me comfortable just the way I needed this. And I do hope he enjoyed what I gave in return.

Just a flashback

Image by Philip Luu

Sorry, could not pass by. I saw the photo and remembered the long-lost friend of mine. One of my first lovers. The relationship that has ended in a clumsy way. The girl who taught me a lot of great things and some terrible ones.

I do sometimes think what if I could be different then. But hey, you cannot enter this river twice. I am what I am now. She is married and had two kids as of a few years ago. Let us all take our own ways…

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