Unmasking this (and that) blog

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I just want to make things clear. There are indeed two blogs. The first one is on Tumblr: thesugarjane.tumblr.com and the second is right here at thesugarjane.wordpress.com.

Both are mine, but after some time blogging I now understand how to distinguish between the two. The Tumblr is mostly things I see on Tumblr. There is a great company there too. The WordPress, however, is a lot more personal and intimate. I only do write my own posts there and this is what I really am and what I live for.

The cross-posting is set up from WordPress to Tumblr (but not the other way round) so all you see on WP will sooner or later appear at Tumblr tagged ‘personal’. Check this tag if you are up to a more serious content.

I do love Tumblr for the pace and visual part, but I also value WordPress for the easiness of commenting, which is free and open to anyone regardless of any registration. I do read all messages, comments and questions everywhere and do my best to respond. Feel free to get in touch.

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The inevitable

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Like I have already written, I am trying to accept the simple fact that all my sugaring relationships are ultimately about having sex. My SDs are considering me as a nice and simple way to have a good shag and even though we do spend quite a lot of time not in the bed, it is still the goal of nearly every date.

It is a hard thing to acknowledge. Nowadays there is gender equality, feminism and all the rest, but the goal for a relationship is still having sex. I certainly do not mind having fun, but is is this sad moment when you realise that you only need a little chat and as long as you have got a firm butt and a high breast and are willing to share those with someone you are very likely to be accepted as a partner (at least for some time).

This does add to the options I choose to get where I want. Maybe I could also get there without spreading legs, but it could have been a longer way. Yet it feels unfair. And sometimes intimidating too.

Wake up tease

Huh, it turned out there is a funny thing I enjoy. This is teasing him while he is partially asleep. Just tried it and it is a great fun and he gets up ready for action. 🙂

The trick is to wake up first and to quietly play with his cock. Gentle and light touches seem to be the best. No big moves, in fact even a blowjob wakes him up. So I left it to the fingers.

What I realised is that he may stay asleep while some parts are already up. I did not want him to Continue reading “Wake up tease”

Good morning

Good morning you all.

I just wanted to share this with you. It is often a problem for me to get up, but despite all that it sometimes turns into the beautiful bright sun, cozy bed, tempting Daddy and amazing breakfast afterwards.

Isn’t it worth an effort the night before?

The wake up

It is this daunting feeling of being on my own. Not always. It is fine when I do wake up in my own bed. But it is sometimes very intimidating to wake up alone when your Daddy is gone. The feeling of being a toy. What is worse – a toy which is not interesting any more.

There is no worry there. The bills are taken care of and the breakfast is ordered. But I am not ordered myself. The difference is striking. Last night we were full of attraction and now I am waking up on my own.

The Daddy is fine. It is normal for him. And I know that and do not get upset. Well, trying not to think the above. He will get back soon. Text or call. Tell me how great he feels (particularly with me around). And I will not complain.

It is part of the game. Not making troubles.

Training tool

Well, this is serious. I have just got a call from my Daddy asking if I figured out how to turn round on him. I thought he is not serious or he is going to forget, but apparently he is very anxious about the trick. The fact that he called and asked makes me even worry a little. Knowing him, he is serious about this now so I’d better go and get a dildo to train. It is my best thought on how to get ready so far.

All dildos I have (not many though) are handheld (if I am allowed to use this word here). And what I need is something that can be attached to the floor or a chair for me to sit on it and try to figure out where and how to move my legs.

The weirdest reason to buy a dildo I think.

Make it easy

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Funny as it is I am experiencing some difficulties with a particular issue. My Daddy asked me to turn around while I was sitting on his laps. It could have been fine if only he was not inside at the moment. He asked to stay in all the time. So I had to turn using him as erm… some kind of axis.

I never thought it is going to be so hard. Still have no reasonable explanation. I am quite flexible and I have always thought I can control my body, but the task proved to be harder than it seems.

All he wanted is to stay in while i turn around and to continue from behind. But since I failed to keep him in, I was told to train. This is what I am thinking of now. How should I?

Sort of busy

Well, this is not really what I meant by being busy recently, but I must admit there is a lot less spare time now, which I am sorry for.

Please come along and do not leave. I will be reading and definitely posting as usual, but there may be some delays with the replies.

I am still reading it all. 🙂

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