Now I feel it and I seem to understand it more than when I was first asked to be wearing only underwear while my man was fully dressed.
This was a normal date with the standard ending, when we ended up in the hotel and he suddenly asked me to keep the lingerie on. I thought he just wanted to have sex half naked, but apparently he did not even start to undress.
I wanted to undress him myself, but he said he just wanted to stay like this for some time. We even ordered something from the restaurant and I started to worry who is going to talk to the delivery and whether he was going to expose me like this to anyone. He took the delivery himself so I was fine about it. But he kept me walking like this for quite a while that night. And although I explained to myself that this is the way he admires me, it was still some very strange experience which in fact had no reasonable explanation.
I kind of got used to it now. No questions asked. If he wants it this way and pays for it – why not show the body I am proud of… Anyway I get what I need and he gets what he wants. It never ends up without sex so I take this as some kind of foreplay.
Once the woman has shed her clothing, I interpret her lingerie for an invitation to begin the dance. As much as I would admire you in your underwear, I believe that the admiration would quickly escalate to other activities.
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I totally understand this approach. It was just strange because of the mismatch in the dress between us.
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Could it be a domination thing?
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As long as it is the only sign of domination I noticed.
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Domination can be a wonderful or frightening experience.
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Tell me. It has been an issue for a few sleepless nights already.
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What happened? I can relate to it, as you’ve recently read about my experience in these matters.
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I have thought about it before and yes, your text triggered the emotion. I’ll try to write a more concise explanation, but there is a huge difference between thinking and actually doing.
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I would be intrigued by your experiences. I look forward to reading about it.
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I do not yet have anything to share. So I’d better listen to you. You seem to have a lot more experience than I do.
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The only real dom situation I had was in the two part post that you’ve read. The other one that came close was the house party. I suppose it can be inferred that I was being dominated. Or at least exploited.
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Still more than I ever had… Not counting my experience as exploitation, of course. But sugaring is very different kind of it.
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I suppose once is enough! My other experience was more of a product of too much tequila and a cabal of mischievous female friends.
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How did you survive?
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It wasn’t easy, although it was enjoyable at the time.
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Tell me.
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The entire sordid story can be found here:
https://thevpub.wordpress.com/the-house-party-rated-x/
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I hope I didn’t cause you to faint. ๐
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Not at all. I was writing an answer to one of your previous notes.
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Now I hope you didn’t faint.
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Not at all. ๐ I’m trying to find the response that you were writing.
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