Inspirational extremes

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Why pretend? I am ready to admit obvious thing. I am getting some encouragement and inspiration from the net. Yes, puppies, and from you too. Thanks.

It has been a funny chat recently when a friend of mine saw my dashboards and opened links (I still need to think if I should have let her do so) and said that if she did not know me, she would have thought I am a crazy BDSM lesbian aggressive feminist.

It is a great job we know each other for a while. In fact she is one of those people who know about my lifestyle and who I can be open with. this is a rare and very important feature for me. We had some time to talk it over and I tried to explain why I need all that.

Girly talks: trying to be smart

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Yet another session has come to an end. Super-seriousness is proclaimed a wrong idea, but to share it here some history has to be added.

Imagine a nice girl. Certainly not stupid, but very reserved. Scared to make mistakes (for many reasons including not being taught how to deal with the consequences). Anyway, she is dating a guy and she is so afraid to do something wrong that she is always so tense that he starts to feel it too.

Girly talks

Here I am again being a shoulder to cry on.

There is a whole set of obvious stories which none of us ever thinks about being a part of and then all of a sudden finding ourselves in the middle of. Yeah, a complex expression, but I am a little drunk now so I feel it is Ok.

Anyway, yeah, I am here again and I am feeling like a psychologist once more. Fortunately, this shit is not happening with me. All I can do is to listen and nod sympathetically.

Seriously speaking, if it was happening with me, I’d have a row and possibly even beat someone.

Girl talks: butts

A friend of mine popped in a few days ago with a bottle of wine and a totally destroyed mind. Not that I was looking for it (given the plans for the next morning) but she really needed someone to talk to. And alas! Here was I. An attender and a soulmate to weep things out to.

She is a lovely girl with a terrible mess in her pretty head. I know her for quite a while and she is always getting herself in trouble. Particularly with her men. They fall for her like a moth to the light, but all of a sudden